The Little Boy In a Man's Suit

From International Life Coach and Pastor Michael Bates: Upcoming CD DVD BOOK

A boy is the first phase of being a male. The boy-male relates to the presence of his penis, a human sex organ that performs a fertilzing function. He is the possessor of XY chromosomes and is the carrier and giver of seed. He is an initiator, not a receiver.

A little boy in a man's suit acts like an adult-- Sisters, when you have a little boy in a man's suit, he is beginning to learn about himself. You enjoy him and do for him because your little boy can't do it for himself. Another subject, the same is being done to African-American males by sisters, dressing boys in men's suits. Remember how as little girls "we" dressed "our" dolls and combed their hair?

A little boy in a man's suit. His behavior is quite inappropriate for his age; his demand is for immediate gratification from those who are unfortunate enough to be in his presence. No one has been assigned to take care of him. A boy is a beggar--"I want my bottle, now!"

A little boy in a man's suit is a boy looking for a mother, someone who will take care of him. He has no intention of growing up. He thinks that a mother's job is to take care of him--"Man, what's for dinner?" He is soley depending on the strength of a woman. It's ok to be a boy, but he is eventually supposed to want to grow up to be a man who can fit the suit he's been trying to wear most of his life.

A little boy in a man's suit. Watch this-- you have a son, a baby boy, he cries when he's hungry. He doesn't care where he is when he acts up (LOL). He will act up at church, in the store, at the family reunion, anywhere. He wants his diaper changed now and will throw fits of anger until it's changed. He really doesn't care who changes it as ong as the end result for him is gratification, no matter what you had to do or go through to get it done. Mission accomplished (LOL) at someone else's expense.

That's OK because he is still a baby. You expect to take care of a baby because he is not yet equipped to do for himself. When you see what looks to be a man, ask yourself if your mind has ever really been prepared to conceive the age or stage he might be bringing you, a little boy in a man's suit.... Probably not, but is this what you have received? Remember now, he's the initiator and you, the female, are the receiver.

Many sisters are losing good men who are great in some areas and have grown up, but have not been nurtured in other areas.

A little boy in a man's suit is driven by his appetite. He will cut up and act up until his appetite is fed or until he gets his way.

The man is an initiator. The woman is the receiver. the reason he's a little boy in a man's suit is because he longs for a man to teach him. He wants to be what he sees. Where are the fathers who have allowed their boys to put on men's suits, knowing that the suit was too big for them at that particular age or stage?